How to please a man in bed..top tips and techniques
If you want to have a long and fruitful sexual relationship you need to know how to please your man in bed.
Do you want to give your man the ride of his life? These 5 really simple tips on how to please your man in bed will get your lovemaking hotter, steamier and more passionate than ever before, starting tonight!
Many women struggle when it comes to how to please a man in bed, but don’t worry too much, these simple tips will really help you get confident and please your man in the bedroom.
1. Doing it “doggy style” – for his enjoyment!
Knowing how to please a man in bed can be as simple as learning his favourite sex positions. There are many advantages to the infamous “doggy style” position; nearly every animal on the planet makes use of this rear entry method, so it goes without saying that we humans can reap the benefit of this legendary position. It is better for your mans enjoyment for a number of reasons, he has total control, can hit your G-spot better and allows him to fondle your breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual areas. Most importantly though, your man will be able to go deeper than ever before, full, deep penetration with this position is guaranteed.
2. Unravelling the mystery of the erogenous zones
That’s right! Men love to be touched in their erogenous zones just like women do. Find your mans “hidden” zones of heightened sensual pleasure and be sure to pay SPECIAL attention to these areas to drive your man wild. Many of the areas are obvious, such as the lips, groin and inner thighs, that can arouse your man. Some areas though when stroked, caressed and kissed can drive your partner wild with desire and pleasure, even intensifying their orgasm. Here’s a free lesson: even the ears, arms, chest and scalp are really sensitive areas that can be stimulated to great effect, give these areas some attention during foreplay and watch the results as it pleases your partner.
3. Setting the mood – romance is best
Men are just as romantic as women when it comes to setting time aside for lovemaking. Everyone appreciates the thought and time that goes in to creating a romantic evening for their loved one. Using scented candles, background music and even rose petals to create a special occasion for your lovemaking can make even the toughest of hearts melt to make for a deep and sensual union. Your partner will love you for this and you will feel the benefit, cherishing the moment for years to come. Set the mood to romantic for passionate lovemaking.
4. Use your hands
Begin with a gentle, sensual massage all over the body, focus particular attention on the genital area using light, irregular strokes to stimulate and initiate a teasing game with the penis. Once you have your mans full attention you should settle down to a regular rhythmic stroke that your man really enjoys to bring him to a satisfying and intense climax.
5. Use your head
If there is one piece of that you should take away from reading this to perfect your lovemaking, it is this: learn the art of fellatio. It is a fact that all men love it. It is a feeling that a man really wants to experience and takes a great deal of trust to allow someone to have their mouths down there. Knowing how to give a blowjob and perhaps more importantly how to give GOOD head is without doubt an essential part of love making and for some can be the main event. Problems occur when the woman begins fellatio by sucking on the penis straight off, when they should really start slowly with playful teasing and soft touches that allow for heightened anticipation and a much more powerful and forceful orgasm. For maximum pleasure make sure you use varied techniques and especially your tongue.
So there you have it, 5 great ways that show you how to please your man in bed. While they’re all great, my recommendation would be to put most of your energy and time into learning fellatio (how to give a blow job), simply because men crave it so much and the loving smile and kisses you’ll probably get in return are definitely worth it.
About the author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of Blow by Blow: the complete guide to fellatio. Unfortunately, most women leave men frustrated and disappointed after fellatio. Learn to be one of the rare women who know how to give a blowjob and perhaps more importantly how to give good head and can satisfy him with oral sex.
